Having a tough conversation is something most of us do our best to avoid. It’s emotional and stressful. Most of us are very uncomfortable with confrontation — or anything that we think feels like confrontation. Sometimes, we see a difficult conversation coming. A...
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Why So Serious? The Benefits of Humor at Work
By Kevin Ciccotti, CPCC, PCC. After the year we’ve just experienced, I don’t think anyone would deny that we could all use just a little more laughter in our lives. But what about more laughter at work? I think most of us would agree that laughter feels good and is...
Tough Conversations: What if You Assume the Other Person Is… Resilient?
By Lilian Abrams, Ph.D., MBA, MCC, ESIA. Sometimes, my coaching work weeks appear to have a theme. This week, the theme is: “When you anticipate having a difficult conversation, what would happen if you assumed that the other person was resilient?” Right now I have at...
Finding it Difficult to Get to an Agreement? Often, it’s About the Small Touches
By Roberto Giannicola, PCC. Several years ago, I saw a documentary about an experiment that demonstrates how something tiny could create an entirely different outcome in people’s perceptions. This took place in a store. When customers paid for their items, the cashier...
When’s the Best Time to Have a Difficult Conversation? Now.
Most leaders have at least one difficult conversation on their radar. Whether it’s with an employee, a colleague, or a supervisor, there’s a good chance that you are either anticipating one, putting one off, just becoming aware that one is needed, or, ignoring one —...
Giving Effective Feedback… Effectively
By Salima Hemani, MBA, PCC. There are three key skills that a leader must demonstrate and master to become an engaged leader: Provide regular feedback Show support for other’s needs Address difficult situations and having challenging conversations Frankly, all...
Solution-Focused Communication Drives Change; Develops Leaders
By Nick Tubach, MBA, PCC. There is a simple, yet strategically significant difference in the communication styles of leaders versus managers. Managers and leaders both use different forms of influence and direction at different times. Leaders, however, demonstrate a...
Leadership and Communication Skills: 4 Insights
Jason and Alex are two fast-rising stars at their Atlanta-based engineering firm. They love what they do and are very good at it. They have led project teams that have efficiently met their deadlines and successfully accomplished their goals. So when a leadership...
We’re Talking Past Each Other, Now What?
By Plum Cluverius, MA/ABS, PCC. Have you been in a difficult conversation when the person you’re talking with seems bent on misunderstanding what you’re saying? A conversation where no matter how hard you try, you can’t get your point across? That’s frustrating, isn’t...
News From Arden Coaching: Lunch & Learn Series Now Available!
As you lead your organization and strive to define its “new normal,” your remote workforce needs tools to manage effectively, stay productive, and lead teams. Arden Coaching is pleased to announce that it has leveraged its expertise in executive coaching and...